February 8, 2015
Have I said it enough times---I dislike transfers
intensely? It is a week to test the endurance of one and all. We prepare
for it as best we can but it always hits like a tsunami and sucks the
life out of you as it goes back out to sea and life goes back to
"normal". 22 incoming and 21 outgoing. Add 18 inches of snow on Sunday
and 5 more inches during the week which made it all the more
interesting. Church was cancelled Sunday so the President declared it no
driving day....but go shovel snow as service. Elder Taggart was getting
calls all day "can we just drive to the houses we know need help?"
(otherwise they are walking in blizzard conditions) What do you think NO
DRIVING means? How many ways can you interpret those instructions? It
was the 5th most snowfall in a 24 hour time in Chicago. One inch every
hour was forecast but areas by the lake got much more. We hiked across
the courtyard to have a combined dinner with Abbotts and the Elders next
door and thought we would die. We have no snow shovel so I had the
brilliant idea to use our Swiffer to just push or brush snow away. Dumb
idea. It was heavy snow and about ruined Elder Taggart's shoulder.
Dinner was wonderful with our combined efforts and then it was back
across the courtyard (aka tundra now) in windy, drifting snowy whiteout.
We needed a rope to help us back to our own 64 degree apartment. What
an adventure.
Monday our 22 newbies arrived--one batch from the
Mexico MTC was early but the Utah MTC bunch was delayed due to many
flight cancellations across the country. As my husband was digging out
the transfer van and trailer from the buried church parking lot (he
finally flagged down a pick-up with a snow shovel on the front and paid
him $40 to shovel the drifts of snow from in front of the vehicles) so
he could pick up luggage at O'Hare and then circle for 1 hr. 45 min.
waiting for the next batch to arrive, Sister Abbott and I were opening
boxes in the office to find coats to be taken to the airport for those
arriving from Mexico. They come from 80 degrees in Mexico with no coats
to 18 degrees, get off the plane and onto the train to go to downtown
Chicago. No office stop planned so when our nurse says, "We're opening
the boxes. They need coats." I responded. The Pres. was then called and
told by the nurse, "swing by the office and pick up these coats." He
obeyed and gathered an armload of coats with names on them with address
labels.
Meanwhile, back at the office, I'm fielding phone calls along with Sister Abbott.
"Has my son/daughter arrived yet?"
"Can my son use his debit card from Honduras in Chicago?"
"My non-member friend needs some shovelling done in Orland Park. Can you send a couple of missionaries over this morning?"
"We want to go to Chicago for our last P-day. The President doesn't answer his phone. Do you think it would be OK?"
"My
daughter needs her endorsement from the Pres. to get into BYU. Why
hasn't he filled it out yet and when can he get that in. It's due
today."
"Sister Taggart, I lost my name tag shovelling snow yesterday. Can you order me a new one?"
"Macy's said my pants were shipped to the office. Were they?"
A box comes labeled Sister Williams. We have one. Which one is it?
The
new Senior Sister coming in is stuck in Lexington, NE. She doesn't dare
drive any farther in this storm. After counting 25 semi-trucks and 63
cars off the road, she stopped in a hotel.
"I lost my water bottle with a blue lid. Is it in the office?"
While
I field these calls, Sister Abbott is fielding calls about flights,
addresses for their new missionary, flu symptoms, back aches from
yesterdays' shovelling, and typical cold symptoms where they think they
need to go to the emergency room, and one or two bed bug scenarios
thrown in.
I am also throwing freight on the shelves to make
sure we have enough pass-along cards, pamphlets, large print scriptures,
media bibles, and Books of Mormon along with DVD's and an assortment of
anything else we carry. When they come in after the transfer meeting,
it is like locust hitting a wheat field. Everything is left empty!!
Tuesday
morning our alarm goes off at 5:30 A.M. Elder Taggart and I do our
training on Tues. morning, Ipad, set up for 22 new Ipads, car safety
training, referral training and how to fill out a baptism record. The
Ipads won't cooperate so 11 missionaries need special help after
transfers. I look into the faces of each of these missionaries and a
sadness comes over me. I won't be here for all or even most of their
missions. I will barely get to know these newbies. Who will help them
when they need help? It's sad.
I am hugged and hugged. I hear, "I
love you Sister Taggart" as I go into the foyer where 75% of our
missionaries are gathered. 3/4 of our companionships will change today.
Now that's what I call apple cart upset. That's Where's Waldo on
steroids!!! The new missionaries march in as we sing hymns in the
chapel. They look eager, nervous, scared and more. The President has the
trainers come up and describe the area they are assigned to--then the
new missionary is called up, they hug like long lost friends, then go
sit together as a new companionship.
Sister G says, "Well, for this area, bring your pepper spray and let's go to work."
Elder M says, "In Hebron, IN the driveways are white and ready to shovel."
Elder C says, "Pres. can I tell him what Morgan Park is really like?" (the Pres. frowns and shakes his head NO!!!)
Elder M says, "Our area is great. There are lots of baptisms coming up---we just have to find them."
Then
the 21 missionaries going home march to the front and sing "Hope of
Israel". I lose it. We have been here for their whole mission. These
have become ours. My heart aches to think they'll be gone. Then they
march out and Elder Taggart starts the shuttle to the temple. They
attend a session before testimony meeting tonight. I hurry back to the
office. We feed between 60-70 missionaries a quick lunch before they
drive to their new areas. Four 5-quart crock pots of soup, platters of
crackers, 6 loaves of french bread hoagies, mega bowl of orange
wedges--GONE!!!
I brought an extra loaf of bread for PB&J's and
in 2 minutes it too was gone. My supply shelves were the same---GUTTED. I
had on my desk requests for 40 name tags, 8 letters of
proof-of-residency and a pile of referrals they got while riding the
train from the airport to the city. The last ones left by 4:30. We
vacuumed, did dishes, emptied garbages, in a hurry, because we're all
supposed to be at the mission home by 5 for the farewell dinner and
testimony meeting. My husband didn't make it until 6 because of all the
shuttling he did to and from the temple. We are told how much we will be
missed. We are told by many they plan on coming to our house in
American Fork to hang out while they go to BYU or UVU. We are told by 2
sisters they want a marriage just like ours. Several give us cards or
letters of appreciation and many want a picture taken with us. I let the
tears fall as we hug for the last time. It's time for them to leave the
mission and move forward with their lives but it hurts. We will never
see our Italian Sister again in this life. I was teary for 2 days. (does
this sound like someone who is "trunky"? I know some of you think we
are getting that way but these are our grandkids and this is our
focus..TO THE END and BEYOND)
Got home late but Elder Taggart had to
be up by 5 AM and to the mission home to take the first 17 to the
airport. No rest. Today we have a Senior Sister coming in from Idaho.
She was snowed in at Lexington, NE. We have the military missionary
couple going home and the new military replacement5 come in. We have a
new office couple come in. (not our replacement) We come home one night,
finally having a chance to do 3 baskets of laundry, only to discover
our laundry room would be closed for painting for 3-4 days. UGH!! I
dream of having my own washer and dryer again. If that is trunky then so
be it. I hate laundromats.
Saturday was the wedding and baptism in
the Chicago 2 Spanish Branch. I put a name in the referral system months
ago. He was less active, wanting to come back. He now had a wife, a
non-member. I sent the Spanish speaking missionaries in that area to
their house. Two sweet Sisters taught the young wife, her mother and the
mother's boyfriend. They needed to be married before they could be
baptized. The wedding and the baptism were all in Spanish yet it was
beautiful! We tried to sing the hymns in Spanish. Fun. You can feel the
Spirit in any language. One of the Sisters came up to me after and said,
"He was our diamond, Sister Taggart.." A talk I gave a year ago is
still having an impact on these missionaries. I didn't write the talk,
the Spirit did so I guess it's good they remember it.
The
Christensen's are coming over for dinner today. They are one of the new
office couples. They are pleasant to be around. They have served for
years at the Utah State Prison so they are vets. I love working with
these couples with so much Church experience. Old soldiers are we in
this troop of young soldiers.
I have rambled too long. I wanted you
to feel what we have felt this week. Wouldn't trade it for the world. We
love what we are doing. It keeps us young. Photos are snow from just
one day. I love my companion. This will always be one of our treasured
experiences in life. We try to make the most of every single day. A good
policy ,we have found.
Love,
Sister Taggart
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